Girls would you give a guy a shot whose 19 real sweet and kind guy who you find attractive your 22-23 years old and he's about to turn 20 in April.
- Yes I would date a younger man.Vote A
- No I wouldent date a younger man.Vote B
- Maybe.Vote C
- If we connect and have chemistry,Vote D
- Hell no I wouldent date a man younger than me.Vote E
Most Helpful Girl
Maturity is a big problem for me with dating younger men... I dated a guy who was 19 and I was 22... He didn't have a license , a job, just started college, no money or anything. He played computer games a lot of times and complained about how he didn't have any freedom because he lived at home...
now before you call me a gold digger... I had been at college for 2 years so about 60ish credits, a license,a job, money saved ect. I encouraged him to do the same but he always made excuses. He had little to no responsibility. He wouldn't put any effort into at least making the smallest improvements. Instead I was the person who drove us everywhere, paid for dinners, cleaned his room ect. I was no longer his girlfriend... I was his mother!
I bought him everything he needed, shirts, jeans, jackets and hoodies, new sheets, a blanket, new comforter ect. So all of that plus him being childish and stubborn I couldn't take it anymore. I broke up with him.
He begged me to take him back promised to get his life together, I said that I had already given him plenty of chances. He then got mad and accused me of not loving him, said I was selfish, said he didn't want me to transfer to state college because I was trying to leave him behind. He told me that I cared more about college and work then him...