daniel and I broke up after 9months...new years eve he texted an said he wanted to break up he called me fat and said he didn't love me anymore...but he started dating a really big girl the same day...why the hell would he do that?
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He was definitely trying to hurt you, not just break up with you. Guys generally only do that for revenge sake, so I would he say he either discovered something you did, or he became convinced that you did something.
As for getting with a new girl the same day, even one who was a really big girl... well, that's just guys. You may not see a lot of it on this website, because so many guys here don't date... but in the real world, guys can move on from a relationship almost instantly. Especially when they want to hurt the ex, because the faster they move on to someone else, the more self-doubt it causes in the ex. "Did he *ever* have any feelings for me? How could he have, when he can get over me so quickly?"
As a guy, I would say that he was hurt. And so he's hurting you back in the best way he knows how - dump you, insult you, and move on to another girl in 3 seconds flat.0