I've had 3 dates with this girl and we it felt like we were really into each other. One thing she found great about was me was the fact I wasn't rushing anything, but that's simply because I'm fairly shy.
All went great untill the 3rd date, in between our meetings she did nothing but mention that she wanted to see me as soon as possible. On the 3rd date we finally kissed but I am afraid I messed it up...instead of a long kiss as most people "advice" as a first kiss we had a series of short ones. She responded well and nothing indicated than when I dropped her off at her home and tried to kiss her goodbye she dodged it and said "I don't feel "it" , sorry" and then left...The day after she asked me how I was and kept apologizing for saying no.
I can't get the thought out of my head that I did something wrong, especially the first kiss...
What might be the cause? I know it's a broad question but I can't figure it out.
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It's probably not that you're a bad kisser, perhaps she thought kissing was moving things along somewhat quickly and she wasn't really ready for it. Have you tried asking her what went wrong? Don't be so quick to be hard on yourself - her mind was probably racing!0