If you've been talking to a guy for a while (months) and then go on a date with him, but he's a little too aggressive on the first date (grabs your butt, tries to kiss your boob), would you look at this guy as just a potential bootycall? Am I wrong for assuming he probably tries this with a lot of girls? Would you still be friends with him?
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You need to assert yourself about what is acceptable to you for a first date!
Otherwise, the guy is going to be scratching his head wondering why you didn't stop him if you have a problem with it (for that kind of guy, he's going to assume that means you were fine with it because you didn't complain).
The guy is also crude and lacks the manners of a true gentleman...but other than that, I wouldn't make too many assumptions.
It's possible the guy is a player, but it's equally likely that he's just desperate...or it's even possible that he's dumb enough to think that's what girls want from a guy on the first date. You didn't set him straight, so there's no way to know what his game is or if he even has one.1