Well hi! Since I'm not that attractive, and to be honest I'm way less "pretty or sexy" than most of girls. I was wondering, could really a guy be intersted in ME? I mean, it's obvious, people are nicer when you're beautiful. Or am I gonna die alone and be left there with cats rolling all around eating my flesh.(OKLOL)! But really, do you know a couple like (the beauty and the beast) or maybe a hot guy in love with someone not specifically hot? Need answers!
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It can happen, but its less common then the opposite.
Looks matter a lot to guys, and things like being smart, funny, successful etc can't make up for it. A good personality matters, but doesn't make up for it - its just a -second- factor guys look for in a relationship on top of looks. Having a really compatible sex drive does actually boost how attractive you seem, but only by so much.
Also note that different guys have different 'types'. A girl that many guys might think is a 6 might be like an 8 to me, because she's my 'type'. If she's sexually compatible with me in every way as well, I'd find her really quite hot, even though most guys would consider her average.
You say you're 'not that attractive'. What does that mean? Guys care about looks, but they also, in general, find women more attractive then women seem to find men. Women seem to find only a small number of men very attractive based on looks alone, wheras men find a lot of women fairly attractive based on looks alone.
Especially as you get older, if you have a pretty good body (not perfect, but you take good care of it), dress well, have a good hair cut and wear tasteful makeup, you're likely to be above average looking. Remember the average American woman is a size 16. Its pretty easy to do better then that. Butterfaces do not die alone with their cats.1