Having sex twice and then won't talk to me?

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the thing is I am really confused. he talk to me through messages first and he was texting me all the time for 2 weeks. he talked to me about his self, really personal staff. I forget to say that we are studying together for four years(he is in my univercity class).  After two weeks we met. And we ended up having sex. After two weeks we had sex again. And he stopped messaging me, talking to me and he won't even say hi to me sometimes when he sees me at the univercity. I feel really bad and I don't want to go to the univercity just because I don't want to see him. I tried to talk to him two times but he replied saying I have to go talk to later! What do I do?

VinnyB · Accepted Answer

The bad news is he used you for sex, the good news is he did it twice, so if you enjoy getting used for sex by him you may have another shot because you made his "desprate and easy chicks to call on when I'm horny and out of options" list. If you do get called off this list again, realize that he will blow you off after again, until the next time he needs a desprate needy chick. If your cool with that, then go for it! Otherwise, lose his number, never call or text him again. Everytime a text from you pops up on him phone he thinks how pathetic you are that you are even trying you talk to him.

If you are thinking "no you are wrong, we connected, he really opened up to me about his personal life", guys call that "emotional crap girls like to hear that makes them think we care so they will sleep with us."

You were a booty call nothing more, but you are also an adult, so you need to get over it and stop talking about leaving school cause some guy used you. If every girl that got used by a guy for sexwhile in college left college over it, there would be no girls left in college. So seriously, grow up and deal with it.

raydream · Accepted Answer

He may hav used you 4 sex & fulfilld his...or doesn't want 2 exceed his expectations with u. If you are strong enough 4rm your mind don't just learn 4rm d xperience,be aware of such things & let it go_but also end up your serious confusion :-

Try 2 talk 2 him personally normally without talking too hastily on this issue.

If he talks then try 2 come 2 an agreement & make him take an oath about your relationship.

If that doesn't work & he ignores you tell a good guy friend or senior(he must b trustworthy,significant & commited) 2 accompany you & catch d cheating guy in a deserted place. Don't threaten him upright but verbally force him 2 say why he is avoiding u...

_Evrything will b OK in d end & if its not OK its not d end!

toulouse · Accepted Answer

I disagree that you 'gave it up too soon'.

if he doesn't want to date it doesn't matter if you wait forever. likewise if he wanted to date you _when_ they have sex is not the issue. he just didn't want more than sex.

on the other hand QA if you don't want sex outside of a relationship.. wait till you know you guys are in a relationship.

lastly. don't expect a guy to want to be around you just because you had sex. some people just want sex. its not cool, but it exists.

JumpThenFall · Accepted Answer

That's pretty typical behavior. Sounds like he just wanted sex and now that he got it, he can move on to the next girl. I wish I was wrong, but I think that's probably what happened :(

Titalooza · Accepted Answer

Congrats! You had sex with a douchebag! He just used you. Forget about him, there are plenty of other, nice guys.

kholland65 · Answer

Basically he used you for sex. I mean that in a general sense though.

In some way shape or form, he got his fix and moved on. He tasted the fruit and then kept on walking.

Not really much else to say other than the fact that he was never interested in dating you. It was basically a one ni...two night stand.

UberTroll · Answer

I agree with the others. Just leave him alone and learn from the experience.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Either he just wanted sex, or he decided after the sex that he didn't want more, and so cut things off so you wouldn't get the wrong idea.

Premonition · Answer

I'll break it down, Pussy feels so good, it usually makes our Dick Urge or Yearn for seconds an more.

If we only have it once, some men will have withdrawls, until he gets it again. than it doesn't matter if she spreads her legs again or not.

bonedust · Answer

He used you for sex, simple. Sorry, truth hurts.

temptationfalls · Answer

Congrats! You got used for sex. Next time don't give it up so easily.

crazybastard · Answer

this is how guys thing works. when we come(orgasm) we come to our senses and we don't want anything to do with you. unless you are very special to us. but that's why they call it the one. you weren't the one for him. sorry but don't be having sex with guys so easy