I've always wondered this. Women usually date a man only if he's good looking, but men date a woman based on her personality and kind heart. We come across loads of couples where the man is really hot and the woman is average looking, but hardly any couples where the man is average and the woman is hot. I mean...there are exceptions, but this is generally the case. Why do women only want to date good looking men, whereas we men are OK with dating average looking women?
P.S. I have dated both good looking and average girls, but I really felt the best with average looking girls because I found them to be humble, kind and caring, as opposed to good looking girls who were really mean and arrogant. I myself am a reasonably good looking guy.
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Honestly, I think it's the other way around. I very rarely see a hot guy with an average looking woman. I only ever see average guys or overweight guys with hot girls. I think most of the time you'll see a thin attractive girl with a really fat guy. I very rarely see a thin attractive guy with an obese girl.
Personally for me, I usually avoid hot guys because I don't think I'll ever get a chance with them. I'm probably at the most average looking, maybe even below. I'm very thin, and I work out but my face isn't pretty. Hot guys intimidate me. But in the past, I've found hot men have been rude to me because I am not beautiful even when I try, and they are complete gentlemen with the beautiful girls.
A good example is a few years ago. My best friend is gorgeous. She is one of the prettiest girls I know. We were hanging out with a few guys at a amusement park and they were bending over backwards to do things for her, and she was treating them like crap and demanding they do things for her. I was pretty much ignored even though I was very nice to them, and I was joking around with them, and having fun. We were going into the lobby of my apartment building at the end of the day, the one guy held the door open for her and then let it slam on me as I was about to walk through and I was right behind her. It wasn't that I want doors held open for me by guys, it's just that he held it for her, looked at me and let it slam and kind of gave me a look of indifference and I was right behind her. When I go through doors, I look behind me, and if I see a person coming guy or girl I hold it so they can grab it and walk in. I'm not going to let it slam.
And then later we went to the bars, and they were all over her and dancing with her and they ignored me. I ended up going and hanging out with a few people I saw from my old school because I got sick of being treated like crap all day. I get that maybe they were probably trying to impress her so they could get into her pants, and they didn't want in mine but they could still have been nice to me. I had no expectations at all except a bit of respect.
I'm always decent to men, hot or not. I was nothing except nice to those guys. When they were in my apartment, I made them their drinks and let them eat my food and everything, but they were mean to me. I even let them crash at my place at the end of the night when we left the bar. And I paid for full fare for the cab ride to my place because they had spent all their money.
And the next morning, it was me who drove them home. And I didn't even get a thank you.