Okay before I tell you anything, I just feel like anyone with an average intelligence can tell that I'm interested in her... So she goes to my church. We used to work together until she quit last week. Our church room is probably like 100 feet across so it's a big room and she sits on the other side. Including today, I have been going over there to talk to her for 3 weeks now. At work, I was always the one to initiate the conversation with her and stuff. So finally I got her number and asked her to hang out. She was the one to tell me about when her schedule is free like Friday or Tuesdays. Now here's the thing. When she gave me her number, I texted back with my number and then when she said Got it, I said " we'll figure something out sometime. I have midterm and film shoot this week. I'd be down next week." she didn't reply back. So then when we met up for work, I asked her about hanging out and she agreed and then I gently nudged her about the text. she seemed confused like she didn't know I texted her or that she didn't reply and then said she has a habit of not pressing send. I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Then when she left work, she said "bye! Ill text you!"...so today I went up to her to confirm if we're still hanging out. I said how she didn't text me so I didn't know the schedule. she AGAIN seemed confused like " I didn't text you?"... I feel like that's a bit sketchy and questionable. But then again, she didn't give a bullsh*t excuse like she forgot or was busy... So she said we're still up for hang out and I said I'll text her tomorrow...
So here's my question: 1. Do you agree with my claim that she knows I'm interested?
2. Do you think she is interested? I feel like unless she's one of those bitches that lead guys on, if she does know that I like her and still agreed to hang out with me, then she would be leading me on. If a girl that I KNOW likes me and wants to hang out with me, I'd be a bit hesitant since I don't wanna give her false hopes.
- She know I'm interested in herVote A
- She doesn't know I'm interested in herVote B
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Just suggest a specific date and time! You left it pretty vaguely ("sometime next week"), so what's she supposed to say? She doesn't have anything to confirm.
In regards to your questions: Yes, it's pretty clear you're interested. She probably is at least not uninterested if she gave you her number and started to make plans to hang out. You just have to follow through and actually plan something!0
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