To make this quick I met a guy via online dating site, we went on a first date, and I ended up sleeping with him. Which I know regret because th emore time I have spent with him, I'm actually starting to like him, and I think I'm starting to get to him too. The last few weekends we have spent together he has opened up to me more about his career, life, family. He's in ton for training in TX he's in the Air Force, I myself went through a horrible relationship last year, and I guess when we met I didn't think we were going to end up liking each other that way, I will admit I felt free, and wanted for the first ime since my bad relationship, I needed to put myself out there again. Well know since his friends he studies with are always out on the town I am begining to feel like 2nd choice, he calls me after he gets aways from them, and we end up having sex, and more sex until the morning. I won't lie I am starting to like him, so that is why I panic and I talked to him last Saturday and told him I can't sleep with him again, and he pleaded me not to do that and that he was willing to devote more time to me than his Air Force buddies. What I thought would never happen that we would start liking each other happened, but I feel horrible because I have never slept with anyone on the 1st date, and I think I screwed up the chance of anything serious with this aewsome guy. He is upset at me and I texted him on Sunday asking him if he really meant what he said about perhaps givig us a chance, and he said now that he is not sure, that I am right and it's prob best we just end it so we won't get hurt. But I could tell by his shortness in his text that he is upset. Should I try to see him again, to see what kind of reaction I get face to face, or just leave it? Help I would appreciate advise.
I need help I think I messed up!
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I know how you feel.
I have been in the same boat.
Honestly the best thing to do is give him time.
But if he stays stern on being upset with you for making a request of no more sex,
Then he's in the wrong and that's all he wants.
And he would be the biggest jack ass.
Who knows, time apart from you might make him go crazy and come back and give his 120%!
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