After having an average first date to a pro-basketball game, we lost touch for about a year. Because we work for the same company, it wasn't a surprise that we began to talk, again. This time around, we've shared some interesting dates. Most often we meet for breakfast after work due to our differing schedules, which obstacle our time together.
I admit there are things about her that I question for a relationship. She asks for money all the time. I don't really like it, but I've heard that's just how she is. The bigger issue for me, right now, is that we are obligated to work two weekends out the month. Of course, my weekends are opposite hers.
This weekend, I clled off wrk. I didn't tell her. Sunday I text her ti talk, then to set-up a date. She was cool. Said she was very tired through text & would text me back when she was up. I never told her I was off. She never text me back. I did text her late that night, saying you forgot about me, huh. But, no response.
Next day, I'm off wrk by schedule. I call late afternoon. We plan a date because we're both off. She explains that she is attending a viewing with friends, & after this it would be our time. We agreed on a movie, dinner. Again, I never heard back from her. I text her, I received no response.
So, do I ask this woman what's going-on? We had these plans. You left me hanging. What's up?
Or do I say to myself forget this girl. I've been there for her when she needed me, but she doesn't respect that.
And added to this, I just think she's seeing someone else because of the past couple days.
That's why I'm unsure what to do. But, I've helped her on rent & other things. We've been planning a trip. I just feel burned off the past couple days.
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I think you forget her. Feels like she is stringing you a little bit. I know myself, when I'm psyched about a guy, I do not behave like that. But I have done that to guys too. I know I can be mean sometimes, but that's just how we are. No different than a guy not being super psyched about a girl and stringing her along as an option.0