Being with someone for 6 months and not being "official" yet or dating someone for one month and just being exclusive?
this is just because my best friend just broke up with his Boyfriend of one month and when I give examples of what could be done better he doesn't want to listen to me because I've been dating a guy for 6 months and we aren't official yet.
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It doesn't work that way. While being in a relationship yourself gives you some first hand experience, it's not necessary for seeing problems in another person's relationship.
We don't know what you told your friend. It may or may not be good advice. But either way your friend is just making an excuse for not listening. To think they are some kind of expert because they've been with someone for a month is ridiculous.
I also don't see how someone could be called a boyfriend after only one month. I would just call that dating.
There is no need for anything to be "official". If two people have been dating exclusively for six months, it's a de facto boyfriend/girlfriend relationship no matter what name you give it. My guess is that most people never make it "official", it just works out that way.1