There's this girl that has a huge crush on me. She's not my type looks-wise, but I like her, she's a got an intriguing personality, she's kind, and I can picture myself dating her, but I'm not 100% sure if I will feel love for her at some point in the future.
Would it be wrong for me to date her? The last thing I want is to give her false hope or hurt her even more if no love develops. But at the same time I want to give us a chance.
Girls, if you were the girl, would you want the guy to give both of you a chance, even though he doesn't (yet) feel the same way?
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damn, I feel rejected just by reading that...ouch.
i think you are driven more by looks and lust and are bit on the shallow side...you have this image in your mind of a perfect girlfriend and have unrealistic expectations. but to break reality to you, that's not how it really works in life...the people you meet and the person you will fall in love with, the girl you will marry, will be someone you least expected, someone you may be did not think that was that attractive at first, but by getting to know them and their personality they will change your life and rock your world. that's what true love is, you meet someone and learn something new in life, about them and about yourself. when you find the one, theyre like your guardian angel and best friend with added attraction/intimacy. so if you are serious about relationships and dating, trying finding a girl that will be that best friend for you, rather then a sexy hot babe who completes your checklist of a perfect girlfriend. I think sooner or later you will realize that there is no such thing as a 'perfect girlfriend' and the person you fall in love with is imperfect in many ways but that's what drives you crazy about her.
also, dating is harmless. dating is called dating and not marriage overnight ya know? you don't have to marry her tomorrow, just be clear on your intentions that you would like to get to know her more and take her out on a date see where things go if she is interested. be open and honest and this way no hearts will be broken.0