I went out on a date for an hour because she is busy with her work schedule and I have homework to do, but I found this woman to be very attractive, intelligent, and funny!
Thing is, most guys who see this would actually think they don't deserve such a great woman, but I am very confident in myself and would like to see this woman again.
Is it wrong to think I deserve her?
I ask this question because Nikkibee24 said I "you deserve her?", "you're weird", and "it wasn't a date" then blocked me because of it.
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There will be many insecure, envious men and many insecure, envious women who will tell you that you don't 'deserve' her. The truth is this: the whole concept of 'deserving' something is subjective. There is no objective answer to the question of who deserves what.
I hope you'd also agree that two individuals have the right to be in a relationship if they both consent. Do you know better than she does what SHE wants? Of course not. By cutting your connection with her, you'd be depriving her of the chance to be with you: you'd be making the decision for her.
You don't have the RIGHT to any relationship with any person, even an unattractive person. But you do have the right to TRY. Many women find confidence a turn-on anyway, and, if you don't put your interests first, who is going to put your interests first?
So, go for it. Don't worry about what others say. What matters is what you want and what she wants. Who knows, maybe she feels SHE isn't good enough for you!0