It has not been too long since I came to the US.
I've dated 2 American guys but I can't understand their behavior.
I don't know what's going on but in my culture we have little bit conservative dating custom. I just wondered that the man saying to me "I should buy that(underwear) for you" when we passed by Victoria Secret, touching my inner thigh when we watched a movie in the theatre, and trying to kiss me when letting me off in front of my house on 1st date and the man sending me a flirty text that he want to go into hot tub with me and come to my bed are normal in American dating custom?
Or they treated me as easy girl?
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These men were very forward. Some men are like this, others are much more conservative.
Some women will have sex on the first date, some women won't. It sounds like these guys wanted to "try their luck" to see if you were the type who would. They wanted to have sex with you, and so they gave you lots of indications of that. If you're not comfortable with that, tell him and/or don't go on a second date with him. There are definitely guys out there who don't act like this.1