My Fiancé and I have been together for four years and are planning to get married in three months, he has become really close to a female co-worker and now he's activated online dating accounts, he says he's just Curious And that I have nothing to worry about, But I've been cheated on many times in the past and am very uncomfortable about these situations, I don't know how to handle it. I am pretty hurt and upset. Just wondering of all guys do this or if it's something I should be worried about
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i'm laughing right now. I really am.
not because of his actions (that's sad) but because of you - being so naive. I mean, WHAT?! you're just wondering if you should be worried about this?
how old are you, 12? I mean, get real. really, start using your brains.
1. getting close with another women and 2. activating dating accounts 3 months before the wedding?
who does that? definitely not someone who's in love and is happy to get married.
it's a red alert in your face, honey. don't let your feelings get in a way of a rational decision here. this guy is not the right one. it simply can't be. just look at his actions. look at them. what do they tell you?
here's my prediction: you're probably weak (plus in a hurry, you're 30-35, desperate for marriage/kids) and you'll forgive/forget or whatnot and eventually get married despite his completely disrespectful and inappropriate behavior.
i'm looking forward reading you bitching about "larger" problems soon.0