I have met two guys so far,and both for the second date has asked me to meet at their house for the second date and..."watch a movie". Do they not know that doing that is way too soon?To me it sounds like a code for getting way too physical way too soon.Am I the only one who feels this way?
It is code for sex. You're not the only one who feels that way, but not everyone feels that way. I'd assume these guys are essentially looking for hookups, not dating, and only do a first 'date' because you haven't met and understand you want to meet in person. Now that you have they're offering fwb. If you don't want it, decline.
Those guys are shallow and stupid. They just want sex. And don't ever give into that, its just demeaning and I'm sure your better than that. I would never treat a girl like that, even a girl online I didn't know. I respect women first, no matter how horny I might feel. Some girls are attracted to men who move fast like this or are quick to be physical. I never had understood that
The guys just want sex, you shouldn't go, pls respect your body, sex is not true love, a guy has to love you rather then just lusting forbyour body, you do it after marriage andbonly with your husband, to take or not my suggestion is upto you.
You are naive, dear. Come over and watch a movie while I ply you with drinks, cheap cologne and rohypnol is what you should be reading into this. This is how date rape happens. Probably not every guy is out for that, but likely 95 percent are. Stay away.
Online dating has a bunch of horny weird guys. They just want to get under your pants. I hate to break it because I found more dysfunctional guys who can't do normal dating and is looking for casual sex.