I've already asked a version of this question but new things have developed... thanks in advance for all your help and advice! :)
After dating for a couple of weeks, my guy told he just wanted to be friends (for financial reasons) and he didn't want to date in general. However, he said he was still attracted to me, still wanted to hang out , and talk and hopefully date again in the future.
We went on a 'date' last night and it felt no different than we were dating. We ended the night with watching a movie, during which we cuddled a little bit and held hands.
If he just wants to be friends... why did we cuddle and hold hands? I am confused!
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I would say he has feelings for you. Feelings are feelings, it doesn't matter if you call it a date or dating. Just because you label as something different doesn't mean the feelings change. It almost sounds like he doesn't want to date because he can't buy you things or can't afford dinners or activities out on the town even for himself. It depends what your needs and wants are. But in my opinion, dating shouldn't be about spending money on each other. Yeah its sweet and thoughtful but there's other ways to be thoughtful. Like sending you a text asking how your days going and such. It sounds like you need to talk to him more about what's going on.0