I am 25 and have been single for about two to three years now. I have been on dates, however, they all start and end the same. I start talking to a guy and things seem to be pretty great for a month or two and then we hook up and things go down hill fast. I am beginning to think that maybe it is me?
I'd like to meet a "nice guy" but I don't know where I would meet such a guy. It seems like guys my age are looking for casual relationships whereas I am more of a serious relationship type of person. I don't drink nor do I go to clubs/bars. I like to take things slow, however, the guys I have been dating do not and I tend to give in easily. So I guess my question is how do I avoid this and how do I meet decent guys?
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From personal experiences, I have met really nice guys at bookstores. I spend a lot of time at bookstores because not only do I enjoy reading but also, there's a Starbucks at my local bookshop. And surprisingly enough, a lot of guys come by to read as well. Majority of the time the guys I talk to are laid back and very sweet. Another place I would suggest would be parks! During the summer time, I workout at my local park and I always get a brave soul who approaches me and starts a conversation. I know I couldn't do that.
Anyways, other places would be: the library, low key sports bar, laundromat (lol), and arcades.
Those are some of the places where I think I would go to meet nice or at least laid back guys. But truth be told, at the end of the day who knows where you'll meet your match. Honestly, you seem like someone who knows what they want and have a good head on their shoulder. I am sure you will find a really nice guy! I know that's SO cliche but it's true. Good people attract good people and although it may seem like it's taking forever, it might be worth it!