For the past 6 months he has been trying to meet up with me. We met on a dating site, but I lost interest, I don't want to tell him that. I'm afraid. I have however seen him in person twice. Once in my city and once at work. (He works down the street) I know..it's a shock. We didn't exhange words or anything. Just looks. We started talking again and he always wants to make plans to chill. I usually make up an excuse, why is he like this?
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Why are you afraid to tell him you're not interested in him? You can do that without actually telling him in those exact words. Ignoring someone is the best way to show disinterest in another person, and that person will soon catch on and look elsewhere. In other words, stop talking with him online so much and start talking less. If you like talking with him even if you're not interested in him is a waste of your time unless you nothing better to do, but you can still do that if you want to but what would be the object? By continuing to talk with him a lot you're giving him the impression you at least sorta like him, and since he lives close enough, that could have a not so good ending. So just start ignoring him more and you should find he'll stop asking you to chill and wanting to make plans with you. He's like that because when you talk with him you're encouraging him in some way... by the way you chat with him... by the things you say and the interest you're been showing in him by your questions, etc. Good luck!0