I am an Indian-American who went straight to college from high school and then to medical school. I have never been asked out, dated or kissed. What can I do to change that? I am not the kind of person who goes to bars in the evenings... I just keep worrying that I will be alone for the rest of my life
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join a club (not bar or dance, but like a hobby club), a church, or some volunteer effort. Make friends. You have to get out and meet people, which need not involve bars or drinking. More importantly, you have to learn more about yourself. When you learn more about yourself, people will want to learn more about you.
That said, I finished engineering school four years ago. I didn't meet or date anyone in college and struggled with the idea after I graduated.
Ironically this Indian-American girl I met at work was amazingly hot. She wouldn't go out with me though. I was sad.0