So I've liked this guy for a while and he's really cheeky towards me and I'm sure he likes me because after school once he was laying his head on me and his friend came up to him and tried to whisper but I heard him say "are you dating her?" and he replied "no... Not yet at least" so.. But a couple months ago I'm pretty sure he knew I was into him and he started dating another girl. I've asked my friends if they think he is a player, and they don't seem to think so. Everything would be fine, except if I date him, I will be giving up any chance of me and this really shy guy who I am into getting together. He's so sweet and his friend told me he likes me, but I know it will take him almost all year to get the courage to talk to me, and even then it may not work out... I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt the shy one and I get the feeling that the other guy I player even though people have told me He's not. Help?
Who should I choose?
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Some random stranger on the internet isn't going to be in your relationship.. Which one do you like more..?0
if the shy guy likes you then talk to him allot more like best buds, he will get used to you. you just have to belike one of his really good friends then ask him out.0
date the shy guy.0
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