I can understand that all girls are different in looks, shapes, althletic abilities, education and all, but why do some girls with little options (0-3 guys) play hard to get? Simply I don't see the logic in faking to be attractive when an experienced person can tell the difference. What's the point in "faking"?
I'm under the impression that It's the unsuccessful girls who complain the most about modern dating? Am I under the wrong impression?
Successful girls in dating don't play hard to get. They are hard to get.
Also adding, what I meant by faking to be attractive (popular). Was that some girls use hard to get on one guy, when that guy is her only option at the moment.
What advantages would "playing hard to get" bring her? if the only option is that one guy.
Any guy could just lose patience and move on? like why risk, ending up with nothing by pretending to be a 10/10 on the dating market when she might just be 5/10 or a 6/10.
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hard to get isn't based on being attractive. its based on withholding w/e it is you do have. from the person you want, to want 'it'. Its based on the idea people will value something more if it is not easy to get.
i disagree. however -unless you just want sex. if you want a relationship, playing hard to get is not what you want to do. because you'll attract people who diont really want anyone.. for more than a few nights.
playing hard to get is based on the idea a person who wants what they can not have. which obviously contradicts the idea of being WITH the person once you 'have' them. A person who only wants what they can not have, does not know how to really value a person for who they r. after the thrill of winning wares off. they will be off to the next conquest.
it isn't about the person they are with. just about how they feel about themselves.. people like that are typically really shallow self centered and vapid... very unattractive types. imo.2