Well, me and my girlfriend have been dating a while, but we have never kissed. We both want to, and have actually talked about it, but we are both really shy, and so we have never actually gone for it. Her birthday is coming up, and I asked her what she wanted, and she said, "A kiss from you". Well, I am more than happy to give her that, but I have absolutely no idea how! She is my first girlfriend, and I am her first boyfriend, so we are both painfully inexperienced at everything involving dating. I'm afraid a peck on the lips wouldn't be good enough, but I am afraid of trying anything more and freaking her out. Can anyone give me any advice?
For the record, I am getting her an actual gift for her birthday, but I still plan on kissing her.
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That is cute. It's hard to explain how to kiss, I'll give you a few tips: first and foremost DON'T stick your tongue in her mouth, there is nothing sensual about it, it's too grotesque. Use you lips (make sure they are wet), if you want to use your tongue a little, just let it touch her lips while you are kissing her, but softly. Use your arms, caress her hair, get really close to her, turn your head, close you eyes (open eyes can be a little spooky) and take your time. Don't worry too much, there are 35 yo guys who can't kiss. If you want youtube it, there is a clip of the movie great expectations, where the kids kiss by the fountain, they are kids, but it is a great kiss, a couple of modifications and it would be perfect.1