id been seeing this guy for 3 months and we had a physical relationship as well as a deep friendship,
then he met my charming best friend twice, and told me he thought he might like her as well,
so I called off anything beyond platonic friends and told her the situation, worried because the last guy I dated she ended up with as well, she said not to worry nothing would happen she was seeing someone anyway
2 weeks later she an that guy broke it off she said she likes my friend and wants to date him with my blessings
and I said it was to soon, she threw a fit then said shed wait for a few months to officially date him and I kind of blew up. and said uve been my friend of 15 years..can you please NOT go after him? she said I'm selfish,
to complicate things before all this went down all 3 of us where getting a place together, obviously hell no I'm not living with them that's awkward. eventhough I found the place and set everything up, sign*
is it OK to want to end the friendship? I feel a bit betrayed
I said "ok IF it came down to it and I asked you to not do this or id leave where would you stand? I've known you 15 years youve met him 4 times in your LIFE "
her "so your ending our friendship?"
her "i don't do ultimatums he makes me happy"
I guess I know where she stands.
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Baby girl I feel that you have the perfect reason to be mad.an be mad at her.it seems like to me she gets with every guy you try to get with or have already been with an if you asked me she's not a friend at all! I had a friend that did me like that and me and this "friend" grew up togeather sence we were four years old and he slept with my girlfriend an she wad my 1st love and he knew it but he didn't care.after that he's tried to an has gotten with every girl I try to get with.and what fuvkes me up the most is he's ugly as f*** but these girls still like em for some reason.nd I have no idea why! But anyway I just wanted to say I understand wear your coming from and you should deff be mad at her because if she was a friend to you at all then shed care about your feelings an wouldn't even look at a guy you like an try to get with' let alone get with them.ya know? If I was you I wouldn't have anything to do with her anymore and go on with your life because their is true friends outtheir! I hope you get past this situation an get a guy thatl treat you like the beautiful women you are! I know how hurtful a situation like that can be.have a wonderful day gorgeous!'1