you guys have been dating about six months or more broke up once in the middle because of some random reason, you kept talking to her because you don't want to lose her from your life she gives you an ultimatum you either date her or you don't contact her ever again, so you get back together with her. do you guys ever think about the future with this girl? how often and how much? Or do you just enjoy every day?
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You gave us a scenario, but you have to understand ALL guys are different, therefore our decisions will be different. Your first mistake is saying you broke up for a random reason, when making ANY decision in life it can't just be 'random' it's always a reason or desire for the decision making.
Most men think about the future, but the guy you gave in the scenario sounds like he didn't have time to think, if given a untlimatium of that sort- he obviously wants the girl right? So he's going to choose to date her again, but if something bad happens & it's broken of again, it doesn't make him a bad guy or confusing, it's that he was trying to make a smart decision due to the circumstance. This make sense?3