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Does he think about me if he doesn't call?
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lol yes us men do think about our significant other when we are not around them...of course on varying levels but just because we don't call it doesn't mean we aren't thinking about you...here's some reason why I don't call...
1. I'm simply busy (I not a fan of calling or being called 3 times a day by the same girl)
2. The most I call is 2 times a week...why? because again I'm not the needy type
3. If it's over the phone it's so I can initiate a date, I can handle about 20 minutes of convo at most
Again don't take it personal, but if he's not calling to take you out for a night in the town, or initiating then maybe he's not for you. The aggressive guy (me) hunts and goes for what he wants.
Oh he calls to make a date - then nothing until I meet him on the date. We go all week - although see each other most days - but cannot talk - just eye contact. He phones once a week to arrange the date!
Im not a big fan of phone calls. They usually end up with big long awkward silences and when I put the phone down I'm more depressed/worried about our relationship than when I started.
But at the same time I love my girlfriend to bits and miss her loads when were not together.
She knows I love spending the time together and we do send the occasional text... I guess you just have to both talk a little bit to be sure how the other one feels then its a sort of happy missing each other when you're apart!
As for the other stuff I reckon he maybe just confused... I don't know - can't really comment on tht.
Hope the first bit helps! :S
Are you sure this guy isn't married?
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Actually the woman I talk with and desire is the opposite on the phone mainly because of a language barrier but from reading your updates he has big dreams but as he said THE FUTURE. Again he is probably wanting to take things slow and not rush them but also wants to show you he has things he would like to do and he wants you to be a part of them. He is trying don't knock him for it. He is in the now he is saying when things get better he has dreams and as I said he wants you to be a part but right now things need to go slow.
He could be shy, or have self-esteem problems.
I'm both, and I rarely initiate conversations with people, at least over the phone. If I call I feel like I'm being rude, imposing, almost; since it demands an immediate response, I feel like calling is an intrusion.
Maybe you should initiate conversation more often? When people don't do that to me, I think that they're simply not interested, and then what's the point of trying to converse?
This guys 34 and quietly confidant though. I've not seen him since Saturday and I texted him Monday to see how he is (bad back) - he replied sweetly, said "he'd be ok soon and hoped I was ok too xx" No text or call since and I'm pining for contact with him now. I know it's daft - I won't crumble but Ijust wondered if he missed me or thought about me a lot like I am with him. I guess what I'm asking is "do guys think about girls when they're not around"
I am in the same situation however if he didn't like you he wouldn't be affectionate with you. Don't rush things and try to look for a big negative. Let things develop and I am sure the more comfy he gets with you the more you will see him call.
Assuming that the guy does like you then YES he is thinking of you despite not contacting you. Trust me.
I think he's afraid of liking you more and is afraid of falling for you permanently. Keep reeling him in if you really like him and want to keep him
I agree, lol I think I need your opinion on lots of things!
yeah, I bet you are always on his mind, but maybe that's his way of saying he wants to take it slow?
yes he do think about you.
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