For some reason I find the more I hang out on this site and read people's stuff on here the more self conscious I get. Whenever I see people talking about problems it makes me sad that I have dating problems too and for whatever reason reading more and more of it on here just makes me feel worse about it for myself. It also makes me sad thinking about how everyone on here acts and thinking if that's really how most people act and think in general. It seems like if you are not mr cool, confident, good looking on here guys will think you're a p**** and girls will think you're lame. Are people really this quick to judge in real life? Keep in mind I'm not saying everyone on here is like this just speaking in terms of the whole GAG population and common trends in people I know there are some good people on here too that are my friends and are actually helpful.
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I hear you,but...I think its important to take advice and listen to users grievances with a grain of salt.I see all of the insecurities from girls and guys here,and I have to ignore most of it because I don't want there awful points of view to affect me.Perfect example?There is a user here who INSISTS white men aren't interested in black women.You can't convince her of anything else other than that very limited point of view.Why?Because of her own awful/hurtful experiences.I voiced my opinion to her,to no avail of course.One day, I actually randomly thought of the topic her and I have argued about in the past,and for a split second,I considered it to be true to some extent.And THEN,I had to be realistic and ignore that negative energy,as I prepared myself for my date with someone who truly wanted to meet me,showed a great deal of interest,and was excited to meet...ME.He happens to be...a WHITE male.
So...proves my point that she is terribly incorrect,and could use some therapy for her own self hatred,and that of her own race.Anyway,you just have to block out some things you see here. I think a lot of users here are inexperienced,lack life experience,and come on here to vent,yet their point of views are askew.So ignore most of what you see here.Its THEIR reality,NOT YOURS.0