My girlfriend and I broke up a year ago. Despite this, we still maintained regular contact. We dated other people, made new friends, tried out new hobbies yet somehow we only grew together more despite these experiences. We've become each others' closest friend.
The other night we were talking on the phone. I told her I learned more about her in the last few months than we ever did while dating. I said she was beautiful and she meant everything to me. She began crying and told me she didn't know how to express her feelings for me in words. I replied that I didn't need to hear words because I knew she loved me. There was a long pause; she was sobbing. I couldn't help it and I began crying too. It was weird. But it felt good.
I want to date other women but then again I don't. I don't know how to make this girl mine and I feel stupid for even continuing to talk with her. should we still be talking or is this a lost cause?
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Well, why do you think she does not want to be with you?
I mean you just told her she means everything to you and you both said you love each other. so why is it neither of you can say you want to be together?
Love is not enough but its definitely significant catalyst to being together.. or deciding to minimally. ... So there has to be actual blocks you did not mention.
What do ou think her obstacle is. And what do you think yours is?1