Imagine you just started dating someone. There's been no exclusivity talk yet, and you're not super close with each other yet. Suppose you either know or suspect that they are dating perhaps one or a few other people, but you also know your date is not serious about the other people either. i.e., your date is sort of playing the field a little. You believe they are sincerely looking for a good committed relationship, and not just trying to be a player.
How do you feel about that?
Is it to be expected?
Are you pissed, assuming your date should never even consider going out with more than one person at once?
Or, are you a little intrigued, thinking that your date can have many people interested in them? Maybe you'll feel special to eventually become exclusive with that person? Does it make you try a little harder to become exclusive with them?
What if you start having sex? How does that change things?
Most Helpful Girl
i wouldn't have sex before exclusivity for that reason. if we have only gone on a few dates fine but after a few weeks if he won't be exclusive I'm out. I've played the casual dating game and it honestly only benefits men unless you are one of those girls who truly likes to play the field and doesn't get attached, which long term I believe most girls have problems doing.1