My best friend just dumped her boyfriend of four years because he was in an accident and now is face is severely scarred. She stayed with him during his stay in the hospital (he was there for a while) and then about two weeks after he was released she dumped.She told me she felt bad but she could no longer date him. I was mad at her, but I have to wonder what I would do in the same situation. I like to sit here and say I would stay with him, but maybe it's different when you're in the situation. I don't want to think of her as a bad person. But lately I've been feeling resentment towards her for what she did. They have a kid together.
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It depends on the situation, if I just started dating someone, I would probably dump them. We could think its shallow to do something like that, but what's the point in making your happiness go down the drain, just too make them happy. If she wasn't going to be happy with him anymore, then she has do , what she has do. Its a horrible position for anyone to be put in or face. Sometimes in life, you have too think of yourself. you can't expect her too sacrifice her own happiness just for him, even though his face badly disfigured in the accident, and it was not his fault, unfortunately life is horrible cruel. That's life.
I am sure your friend is a good person, but sometimes you have too be cruel to be kind for yourself and for the other person. I feel sorry for both of them, they are both put in difficult positions.. I quiet sure she didn't want to do it, but she has think of own long term happiness.
we can quiet easily judge or criticize what someone else does in certain situations, but the thing you have ask yourself honestly, could do the same or opposite thing as them? Its easy to say we would do this and that, but how do yourself for sure? No one knows themselves that well to say or judge the other person on the position they currently facing.
The only time t anyone should judge others, is if you know yourself 100% well, that you would do that?. and 95% people just can't do it,