There's this girl that I really really like but I don't think she likes me back. However, my friends said that she might just not be ready to date or wants to focus on her school right now. But I feel like even if you couldn't date right now, that's different from not LIKING the person right? because when I told her about how I like her and I know she doesn't see me that way, she didn't say anything about "oh I do like you. I'm just not ready to date." but said she valued our friendship. I feel like if I was really busy with school and stuff but I really liked a girl, I would tell them and see if theyd wait for me. what do you think girls? a friend said she told a guy that she liked him. he said he liked her too but he couldn't date at the time.
Is there a difference between not wanting to date right now and not liking me?
What Girls Said 2
If she said she did like you, then she probably does.
I know I quit dating for awhile when I got into college and told people I wasn't dating at the time, even if I did like them and really wanted to go out with them. I knew in the back of mind that I just didn't have the time and my grades would most likely suffer or I wouldn't be able to see the guy as much as I should (which wouldn't be fair to him at all).0
What Guys Said 1
Yes, there's a difference between those two.
That girl must be focusing first in her studies and aiming to be successful later on and when she settles down, perhaps she'll go to you.
You have a lot of chance for her.0
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