just curious. where would you prefer a guy take you for a first date?
do you think going out for coffee is too boring?
do you think going out for drinks is not up to your moral standards?
- A nice cafe that serves good coffeeVote A
- A nice homely bar for a couple of drinksVote B
- Yuck, neitherVote C
ive done both though. I generally take more conservative girls to cafes and more daring girls to bars, but what's your perspective on ths
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I think it depends on how you met the person. Is this someone you already know, like a friend that you two decided to go out on a date? If you already know her, then it's best to take her to dinner. Wow her on the first date, show her how great of a guy you are.
If you are meeting her online or for the first time, then coffee or drinks are better. It might seem more conservative to go for a coffee, to some people asking to go for drinks might imply that you want drunk sex later on :P (not everyone thinks this way, but some people do).
But really, you can do what you want. If you want to do something fun, take her bowling or to mini putt, or to a museum if you know she would be cool about it.
Hit up a festival even. Show her that you are fun to be around :) My ex boyfriend took me to part of the city (I had just moved to) where the neighbours got together to put up Christmas lights. I was so impressed, it was such an original date idea and he really won me over with that :)0