I am so tired of being alone, I think I am a nice person, but it seems like the only guys I can attract just want sex, and if I say yes they get what they want and start a relationship with someone else, and same when I turn them down ( I have figured out when they only want sex, and so I know not to) but they say they aren't looking for a relationship but two months later dating someone. I don't know what to do, I go out with friends to public things, I have tried online dating but nothing seems to work. I have been single for two years and I am actually starting to get depressed and cry every night. I never used to need a guy in my life, but now it seems like my life really isn't complete without one. I just miss feeling special to someone. I don't know what to do anymore..
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Get out to new places, and do new things Travel all you can, to places most people don't go. Avoid Mazatlan and the usual scenes. Study languages, make yourself more interesting.; in the long run, you have tol ove yourself first..then other people will love you too.
As for dating and bfs,m you know dating in a formal way is, to coin a phrase, outdated. People need to meet each other in less structured, but natural ways. NOT online, that's only for players. Ditto for formal 'dating.' No wonder you only meet the guys wanting to score and move on.