So we have been in a relationship for about a month now. He's really quiet, and when we first met I thought it might just take some time for him to open up.
When are spending time together, we can go long periods of time without actually saying anything. It's never awkward, but I feel like I need more from him to get closer. I hate always having to initiate conversation.
He contacts me daily, usually we text a few times throughout the day, then when he is off work we will talk on the phone for while. But every time we text he just stops mid conversation. It worries me sometimes, especially since we usually talk at night. I sometimes worry that he is mad or something. I just wait for him to call or text me.
How do you date a person who is so quiet? Or is it even worth continuing?
We do have fun together though.
Most Helpful Guy
I am one of these guys although it seems I might talk a little more the he does. Its not that he doesn't want to talk or is mad. He's probably sitting there trying to think of something to talk about but cant. Some people just have a hard time trying to find or think of things to talk about.
most females have an easy time coming up with topics because they naturally talk more. Where a guy may say 2000 word a day and girl will say 7000. Its just the way your brain works.
You should give him some more time also. A month isn't a long time. Also try talking to him about your concern. Tell him you'd like to hear a little about his day and some of the things that happened in it. Just realize though, if he starts talking about stuff you have completely no interest in you need to act interested and pay attention. If you know he's really big into a certain sport try to get him to talk about that. Anyway, good luck with everything and hope everything works out for you two.4