I've gone out on a date with this guy 3 times already.On the third date,we made out...and that's it...ALTHOUGH...if I wanted to sleep with him,I don't think he would have said no since we hit second base.Anyway,I would like to get to know him better before doing a lot physically...but its been a little difficult:
1.He has been sort of quiet...but he KEEPS asking me out.
2.He doesn't CALL me.He only texts,and the texts are more for information...(to ask me out and make plans).
3.He doesn't really ever say my name...(but I think its because he didn't know how to properly pronounce it)...either way,I told him how to say it and hopefully he will use it.
4.He doesn't really compliment me much...like saying I'm pretty or whatever...at all.
What I DO like is:
1.He seems nice as a person and respectful.
2.He is attractive and we have a lot of similiar interests.
3.He is into PDA which I don't think is a bad thing. :D
He seems insanely SHY or not that into me...I don't know! He seemed to open up more about his family,friends,relationships on our 3rd date,so at least that was good.
*What do you guys make of this?Is he into me or not?Is he just shy?Btw,he is white...and I am black.I don't know why this would matter in the whole scheme of things,to some people it does.
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First of all please put your questions into the right category. This is a question on dating and there's a whole section dedicated to it! so why post it in the OTHER section?
I'm not too sure this guy is all that into you. He doesn't even say your name? That's completely rude. If he doesn't pay you any compliments now, where he is trying to get to know you and get on your good side.. WHEN will he ever say it? Him not calling you isn't all that big a deal according to me but if he's going to make plans with you, its respectful on his side to call you up.
I understand some people are shy but if he really is so quiet, don't you find him boring?
Get to him to open up to you more and analyze if he's actually worth it. Don't hate yourself if he just tries to have sex with you later when there's no obvious chemistry between you two.
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