There's a dance coming up this Friday and I feel that it's my last chance at finding a date. There's a talent show show the night before but I don't have high hopes for that. I'm good looking, muscular, smart, nice, the perfect guy (not my words), but I have problems asking girls to dance. There's always that fear nagging me, telling me that I won't get a date, that I'll be all alone, that I look stupid in the close I picked.
Advice, opinions, tips, stories. Anything that can help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you to everyone who gave advice.
To all you negative people, sit and spin.
Most Helpful Girl
I would recommend just going for it. I don't even know who half the people I dance with at dances are. For a fast song you can just go in the direction of a girl you want to dance with, turn to her, give her a look like "I'm already facing you so we might as well dance" and go for it. Just make sure there are no other guys about to go in for it. I remember the first time I danced with a boy, (not for ballroom lessons), one boy was just asking me to dance and another one jumped in front of him and asked me the same thing. I ended up dancing with the one who cut the other boy off (it was only 6th grade) because I felt bad for him and he'd been following me all night at my friend's party. I regretted it though, because I ended up having to hangout with the other boy a few months later when we went to see ocean's thirteen, and all he did was tease me about not selecting him as my dance partner.0
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