Where if you text a girl its considered a red flag? I've heard/read that if guys text a girl either real late at night or early in the morning, that he only wants her for a booty call.
Now granted...my friend works all day, so he's busy. But he still texts me around 5 or 6 once he's done with work. Last night...actually, the past couple nights, he was "chilling with buds," but he still kept replying to my texts.
I kinda felt bad because I figured that he was trying to have fun with them, but if that was the case, wouldn't he have just ignored me? We seem to only really have convos between 6 - 8 & sometime later 9 - midnight. Is that a red flag?
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It depends on the relationship between you two. How long have you known each other? Do you like one another? Is there any relationship history between you two? There are a lot of factors... But I text my crush when I can. Sometimes that does happen to be late at night or really early in the morning. But it doesn't mean I want to f*** her. I like this girl and respect her. I don't even think about sex or anything of the sort, I just want to be in a relationship and make her happy. I hang out with my friends all the time, but I'll always try to answer her if I can. Not in a clingy way, just if I can't answer all the time, I'll say "I'm at work, gtg" or " I'll text you later ok?" I'll give reasons for the second one, depending on the situation. But if I'm just chilling with my friends and we're not doing much, I would choose to text her too. Why choose friendship over love? Or the other way around?1