heres the thing I hate this freakin job that my boyfriend has. with all the excessive work and stress we barely talk in a day. sometimes I feel he just wants me to be his emotional support like his ma Because he knows I ain't going anywhere. I feel I don't deserve the lacking of effection that my boyfriend gives me like if he is not stress he will call and Skype but if he is he jus leaves me and I feel left out. like pls help how to deal with this
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Well first off let's generalize this as a problem with military men. It is specific to your man and not necessarily a symptom of him being in the military men. There are plenty of civilian men who want a woman to essentially play the role surrogate mother.
As far as your relationship goes, based on what you described the answer is simple. You two don't have the kind of relationship you want and that is fair enough. You can either communicate (calmly and respectfully) how you feel or you find a new dude.1