The title says it all. Obviously girls get more than guys, but I really want to know how many guys get. I just made a profile and want to know where I stand so I could change it if its performance is sub-par. I made it two days ago and I have only received two messages, so I'm kind of worried (I was uninterested in both).
So guys and gals how many messages do you receive on an average week?
Also, let's make it more interesting. Girls, what message can a guy send that will make him stand out and increase the likelihood of a response?
- 0-1Vote A
- 2-5Vote B
- 6-10Vote C
- 11-16Vote D
- 17+Vote E
Most Helpful Girl
I joined an online dating profile with my best friend (she was serious but I joined caused she didn't want to do it alone) and I was kinda surprised at all the messages I got. But then I did some research and found out that most girls get a ton of messages while guys barely get any because you are supposed to "chase" women, not the other way around. So, if you aren't getting messages, go out there and send a few. Most women expect you as the man to take that first step.
Also, don't do what a lot of guys did and create one message that you copy/paste to every girl. We can easily tell those apart from genuinely interested ones :P1