a guy and I went from hooking up (but not all the way) drunk to doing stuff like that sober to serious flirting and him always starting to cuddle me and stuff. we are good friends so I see him quite a lot, and today we actually drove 10 hours in the same car with his cousin and I got to know his family.
anyways after the first time he kind of labelled it as fun, and he used this word to describe it again a few nights again when he went over to visit my dorm room and we alept in the same bed. I was with him agai tonight and we started cuddling and he started to kiss me and asked me whether I wanted to stay the night. I said I was not sure and decided on my own that I would go home.
as he brought me to the door he said it was a pity I did not stay and I just uttered that as long as it was just "fun" I could not do more. he just said yeah he gets it and then I just went.
do you think I pushed him into something? I mean I'm starting to fall for him and I just don't want to risk getting hurt, but should I told him that more sensetively? or was it right to react that way considering we never really talked about us yet and him saying it was fun to our first hookup? I mean that was kind of rude, or that's what I felt...
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I don't think you're being to pushy at all. But in my opinion, I think you should hint that you are starting to like him (if you wanna be with him), because he might like you a lot also and the only reason he's not showing it and called your situation as "fun" is because he himself might be afraid of getting hurt as well. Or he might not wanna seem the fool. I think that if you like this guy you should hint it, but don't come out completely as he might not feel the same way.. You gotta also look at the way he acts with you, not many guys like cuddling without actually feeling something for a girl so that might mean something significant. But I don't know babe, its up to you! if you like him hint it but don't overdo it! in case the signals have been mixed up! ha ha