In what ways will a guy test a girl he is dating? My friends and I were talking about it last night and now I'm curious as to what other thinks
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I wouldn't say I test, but look for a certain personality maybe. One thing I look for or sorta test is if they lie a lot. Because the last chick was a player and attention wh*re, she loved to just say whatever to make the guy like them.
I look for girls who aren't afraid to be themselves, and have self respect. Girls who I know got my back. I don't have to worry about them saying good things to my face, then talking trash when I turn around. Also, I search for red flags during our conversations. How her past relationships ended?How does she treat other people? Does she blame other people for everything or is she able to admit her mistakes and faults?<that's pretty big.
I almost always ask her viewpoints on things first, so she can't agree with whatever I say. I want her have a mind and opinion of her own, and stand by those opinions. That's what I view as a strong woman is even if we disagree on something it doesn't tear us apart...we merely just disagree. So, its not really a test...but sort of is.0