So I spoke to this guy online for a little while and then he asked me out, we had a plan, then on the day he messages me to say that he's really sorry and really wants to see me, but he's sick and thought he'd be fine by the time our date rolled around, but he's not. I ignore the message, then on the weekend he texts asking if I happen to be free anytime during the weekend. I'm not, so I tell him I'm busy, but it would be nice to go out sometime soon. He replies 'sure' and I haven't heard anything since that and it's been about a week. Is it worth sending a follow-up text or just leaving it alone?
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It is possible that he was genuinely sick. You were busy when he texted you for this last minute date. But to me that sounds like he is eager to meet with you. I'd say he is really interested. You should give him a chance.
People do get sick, don't write him off unless he does it again. He probably feels incredibly bad that he had to cancel on you. And I think it's a good sign that he wanted to try a last minute date. If someone is seriously interested, they MAKE time for you. Even if that means a last minute date idea.
You were busy so unfortunately that didn't work out. But I think the thing is now he probably feels as though he lost his chance. I would send a follow up text. Find out what his schedule is like and go from there :)
If he does cancel again, then that is when I would forget about him.0