I was dating a guy and things were going AMAZING, and then all of sudden he loses interest and just want to be 'friends.' During the 'friend phase' it felt like we were dating it really confused me that he was being so hot and cold.
Today I find out that one of my "friends" (and I use that term lightly), told my guy that I had chlamydia. WHICH I DON'T!
I suspect that she was jealous, because my guy is very good looking and she just wanted to ruin things.
Why the heck do girls do things like that?
PS. Now that I know that he lost interest because of a lie he thought he knew, how do I convince him to date me again and look past the damage that has been done?
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Honestly, I'd confront him and tell him the truth and then add on "And if you seriously believe every lie you hear, then you're more dense than I thought." or if you wanna be sassy (; "If you seriously believe everything some bitch said without even asking me if it were true, you're a bigger jackass than I thought." I'd pick the 2nd one ;) it has a bigger dramatic effect.1