I love my girlfriend very much, but she is constantly texting me. It's not easy for me to text at work, and when I went home sick and after telling her so. She called me calling me a liar, and said that I should have texted back. How can I voice to her that texting consistently throughout the day is completely unnecessary, and that she doesn't need to feel uncertain to when I am busy?
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Well, did something happen that might make her so distrusting of you? I gotta ask, cause if something happened in your past (cheating, lying, deceit of some sort,) even if you've both agreed to drop it and move on, it would explain a lot about her behavior.
In general, though, I think you should just tell her exactly what you said in your question :) Her constant texting/checking up is unnecessary and over-bearing, and she needs to show some confidence and trust when you are apart if the relationship is ever going to work.1