I'm not the type of person who is attached to my phone/feels the need to text people all the time. I really want to text the guy I'm interested in sometimes just to talk or to ask him to hang out, but every time I do, I feel like I would annoy him :/ What would you do?
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Yes I have. All the time or should I say every time I like a girl and even if I had never texted her I have the feeling that I'm going to be annoying with it. So if I decide to do it the I'm nervous if she doesn't write back that I was annoying but if she does then I'm at ease until the next time I would text. So for the most part I decide I wouldn't text and chicken out. Witch is kind of stupid if you think about it it's the same as with calling someone. I think I need to ease up on this and just text of I feel like texting or call if I feel like calling. Because sooner or later I'm gonna have to ask her out anyway and get rejected or not and things go well in either case it would probably be better if it happened sooner than later.
But in the mean time to sort of get over my chickening out I've decided that I'd text or contacted them (text, call, FB IM, etc.) only if I had a good reason to do it and if I'm not going to see them for a couple of days. Os for example if I'd want to ask a girl to lunch on Monday and I was going to see her on Sunday anyway I wouldn't text or call her on Saturday but wait and try and do it in person. But if I wasn't going to see her before I was going to ask something then I'd contact her.
Sound a bit stupid if I think about it but it at least gives me some criteria that have to be complied with and I can say to myself now there's no reason except for chickening out so go for it.
Of course if they don't pick up, write back or respond I've made a rule for myself that I won't try and contact them until they contact me. Except if in person and even then I won't mention it because I believe if they wanted to respond they would have.0