Some of you might have seen the other questions that I have posted over the past three days. Anyway, to sum it up, my fiancee of over two years cheated on me (no sex, just flirting,texting,and sending pic which she said weren't nude) that is beside the point cheating is cheating.
I didn't find out because of her telling me, I found out by looking through her phone. We lived together, yesterday I packed up my stuff and left, living with my parents for now. I get here, and decide to look in her Facebook, only to find her and her dad dogging me out, calling me stupid, coward, mama's boy, and that I never grew up.
I don't see how they could say that when she was the one cheating unless she told him that I left and said nothing about her cheating.
She cried that whole night and the next day all the way up until I left. She said she wants to be with me, but she told her dad that she feels free. It's just all a bug load of sh*t, I want to talk to her, but I don't. I deleted all her family off of Facebook, and her uncle messages me asking why I deleted him that he was shocked that I left, and that "we are still friends".
I want to talk to her, but I refuse to be the one to start the conversion. I mean if she really really wants us to work out she would have texted me today at least right? All day nothing, I know I might sound sad, but I do miss her at this point and just want to talk, even if I have no intent on getting back with her.
Do you people out there think I am a coward and pathetic?
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Well, give yourself time please..because truth be told , it would have only been a matter of time that she would have found someone that piqued her interest, and physically cheated on u.. I'm not lying. And you have to know this two.. Her actions caused you to feel that way anyway. Her family she will never give you 100% she know if she fails that her parents are there. But if she rely on you and trust hand fails she has to get back up again quickly in order to make things happened for the both of you ...she's lazy. Scared to be a real adult.
And all Ur gonna become is an extension of her family. No room for you to be the head man, like you want to be.. In her life. I'm sorry but she deserve someone to take care of ..she will end up with a loser guy that she can abuse and take care of. Cause he need her and will do what she says.
Her father is immature too, I get they are a close nit family and you like that but I wouldn't wanna raise my kids in,a self absorb , ride and obnoxious family.1