Dont delete her number, that's a bit too much. Just don't text her. Also, let HER text you for once. If you take a break and stop texting her completely, wait for her to text you. Wait three days, saying nothing. If she missed you, trust me, she WILL text you and say hey and wonder why you haven't contacted her all the sudden. Itll show if she's really into you or not.
And she seems classy by what you say. Don't push for sex or anything too sexual unless she permits you to do that stuff to her. If you get pushy or needy sexually, she will be turned off or feel pressured and insecure about you liking the real her, instead of just using her for a f***-and-run.
And first, see if she texts YOU when you don't text her. Then talk to her for about a week and ask her "Hey lets go out together this week. :)'
Texting won't get you anywhere too special haha. Good luck!
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Just give her some time to respond. It could honestly go either way with her. I went on a date with a guy and didn't think it would go anywhere past that, told him I wasn't looking for a relationship, just wanted to meet people . . . he was very persistent though, and we've been together for 2 years now, engaged for 15 months. If he'd backed off because of what I told him, I never would have gotten to know him well enough to fall for him. I have also hung out with guys in a similar fashion to what your situation sounds like, when I was positive I wasn't attracted to them, but they were nice guys. You've put the moves on though, and gotten somewhere, so my guess is she's interested.
Ease up. You need to give her time to work out what she wants. Often when people are newly out of a relationship they are still prone to doing relationshipy things, even without realising it, because its familiar or an automatic reaction.
In my opinion the solution would be a 'friends with benefits' scenario. Get rid of this 'boyfriend' 'girlfriend' business and just go with 'have fun'. If it stops being fun, then just go back to being friends.
Forget that twat man...
Punctuality is paramount...
"Wait for her to call you"... "Don't delete her number" (PUKE)
She f***in' with you man... there's no excuse for not returning a phone call or a text message in a timely fashion... NO EXCUSE.
Umm why delete it just don't text her same with Facebook don't filter her just don't text if you don't want to... Don't be a open book, have some mystery to you
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I wouldn't delete her number or anything but I would be weary...especially if she's saying she doesn't want anything serious it could mean she's just messing around and your feelings could be disregarded and played with...unfortunately some people just like the attention.
I have to agree with some of the other responses, don't text her, or when she wants to do something pretend to be busy (or actually be busy) if she is interested in you she will pursue you and who knows maybe adding a little mystery may change her mind on the whole 'not wanting something serious'This sounds so much like a situation why brother is in right now! For a second I thought you might actually be him as the details are similar except he didn't stay over at her house. My brother asks me advice for her like every 20 minutes. Don't delete her number. That would be a little harsh. If she denied you, then try to pretend like everythings cool even if its not. Also, don't read too much into text meassaging. I lose my phone and don't respond to people for days at a time! Try to give it a few weeks to see if the awkwardness goes away and you can still be friends.
She likes you and probably wants to take it slow. Back off on the texting she could just be really busy or trying to figure out her feelings toward you. Relax. And just wait a few days then text her or better yet try talking to her in person and only texting to make plans to hang out
don't delete the number, what I would try doing is deleting the thread of messages and call log. That way if she contacts you, you'll know, but until then, it'll be out of sight, out of mind. It works for me.
seems like she is just a friend. I mean maybe just slow down the texting but otherwise why not just have a friend?
Some people just aren't ready, maybe give her more time?
She's taking things slow. Just don't be pushy text 1x and wait shell come to you. The way she's is taking it will turn into a meaningful relationship.
Why would you delete her number have sex with her.
not very promising, would delete
Don't delete. Just don't be needy.
I would delete her number if I were you.
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