I used to be friends with him and supposedly he liked me. I liked him too, but I knew nothing permanently was going to happen. We also went to the homecoming dance back in October.
I think having extremely low social skills caused him to randomly stop speaking to me at the beginning of 2013. It hurt, but I’ve been in this situation before and it’s not bothering me now. I have no desire to speak to him.
I’m getting bad vibes since junior prom is coming up and he decided that the first day of break he’d text me the question, “You going to junior prom?”
Yesterday was 3 texts, the last one with an apology that we haven’t spoken. Today I’ve gotten one text, one phone call, and one voice mail in which I don’t feel like listening to. I’m ignoring it, but I feel like my break is ruined with messages from him. I don’t even want to go to prom in the first place and I don’t feel like being used.
Questions: Is this harassment? Should I respond, what should I say to get him to go away? What do I say if he asks to go to junior prom?
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I'm dealing with something kind of similar...There's this guy who texts me a lot and will even call me like 4 times a day...I only met him about two weeks ago, on my way to base when the bus broke down and we sat and talked out of boredom. I don't know what possessed me to give this guy my number but...
Anyways, at first I answered his messages and calls. He seems to just talk on and on, and still asks me out and flirts even though I told a little white lie that I have a boyfriend. So I started ignoring him. So far that's been working...I feel bad though.
From what I understand, you don't really want to contact or talk with this guy. If you feel like its a situation where you can answer him and talk to him without making it seem like you're interested, or to talk to him and say you're not interested (in a nice way) then do so. If its too complicated or you just can't talk to him, I say try ignoring him for now. Don't let this ruin your vacation...
I hope I helped a bit, not sure if I did..
Have a good one :)