I guess how many dates should I go and then stop if I realized that this is not going to work out.
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The reason why people date is so they can weed out who they like the most from that bunch.
Give him a shot.
If you two end up exclusively dating each other and he is still seeing other girls, then it's a problem.
Right now he isn't committed to you or them, so he can see who he pleases.
Also, to answer your question you should know after the first date if you two mesh well together or not. After that it can take a few more dates or many more, to become official (there is no set time).0