I know girls read into texting too much and texting is just texting, but would you text her first? or could you like her/be interested and not text her much at all? Why are some guys so vague with texting? thanks
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Well, I'm pretty bad in texting too. I find it time consuming and after a while it's more searching for something to talk about than actually being interested in something. But that can be a personal thing. I also like mystery and therefore will try to be a bit mysterious. So I don't like to know everything all the time about something.
Now, for the question about texting first:
If I like a girl and I got or asked her number, I'll text her first definitely (is she doesn't have my number or if she didn't text me allready). I'll make sure to ask a question and you could say that my first text will be a test to check if she's responsive. Does she text back? Does she ask something (is she interested in me)? Or does she just answer very short? I'm just looking here for general signs of interest. If I'm in doubt, I'll text her again and do the same thing. If she now doesn't respond in a way that shows some interest, I won't bother her again as I don't want to stalk her or anything. If she is interested, it's her turn to show it by starting to text me. So I won't initiate anymore, she has to meet me halfway.0